That thing when you’re looking at tumbr and only pictures of babes with amazing figures and clothes and lives come up and all you can do is compare yourself and think how you don’t have any of that. And then life sucks a bit more.

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eatspoopsandleaves:

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mrmoulin:

I swear chivalry and being a gentleman is non existent these days because women have killed it.

I was at a train station the other day and this young woman was struggling with her suitcase up the stairs, and by struggling, I mean really struggling. So I asked her if she would like me to carry it…

Yo. Next time, don’t get all pissy when a girl doesn’t want your help. This is why “nice guys” are the worst. The minute their “nice guy” role doesn’t go the way they want, they drop it, barge away (instead of just calmly walking away), and write a rant about how women killed chivalry. If you were truly chivalrous, you’d accept her preference to struggle on her own, no matter how strange or contrary to common sense that may seem to you. You wouldn’t make a big deal of it.

So she didn’t want your help. Maybe she’s had experiences that make her wary of men like you. It’s not your business to know. It’s also not your business to be offended when help is turned down. Help is free, help is unasked for, so when it’s not taken, it’s not okay to have a little women-hating hissy fit.

lol at men like me. What are you even implying?

That’s it, I’m done. I’m extending this to not giving my seat up to pregnant women and old people too. Everyone for themselves. Much simpler.

Ok, first of all, the fact that you made this whole thing about her being a woman is what makes you a jerk. If it had been a man struggling with a bag and turning down your help, would you have even made this post?

Second, I know if feeds your ego to believe that we are thinking about fucking you as much you are thinking about fucking us but believe it or not, a lot of us don’t really give two shits why it is you’re trying to talk to us.

If I’m busy, doing something, in my own head, on my own way, I don’t have any time for you or your bullshit. I don’t want your help. If another woman asks me, I don’t want her help either. You know how men get all pissy when anyone implies that they can’t do something manly? Guess what? Women also like to feel accomplished, jump hurdles, struggle a little and reap the benefits of working hard for something. We don’t want you to step in and save us. We can do it in our own time, our own way, and if it’s an inconvenience for you to have to wait a few moments longer or take a step to the side, tough tits, cry me river, it has nothing to do with being a man or a woman because I’m a fucking PERSON. A PERSON carrying a bag. A PERSON lifting a box. My gender and have sex have NOTHING TO DO WITH LIFTING SHIT.

I live alone and have for many years. I’m highly independent. I don’t accept help from anyone unless I am REALLY in the mood to let someone else feel important for 2 minutes. I KNOW I can do whatever it is by myself, in my own time, because odds are I’ve had to do it on my own before. Struggling helps me learn. Struggling helps me build myself. Struggling helps me find methods that work for me when I need it and when other people won’t be there.

The point however, is that helping someone shouldn’t be about whether or not you think that person has breasts, a vagina or identifies as a woman. It should be about helping a PERSON, A HUMAN FUCKING BEING. As soon as YOU bring gender into the equation, it makes YOU the asshole. You should allow a pregnant woman a seat just as you should offer a man carrying a heavy load a seat.

It’s not chivalry, it’s just good fucking manners to be willing to help a person in need when ask for it/ accept it and to go about your fucking business if they decline it. In the grand scheme of your day and your life, how important was it, really, that someone turned down your help in carrying a fucking bag up some stairs? Really? The only reason you’ve made it of import is that you made it about her being a woman. You have no idea if her reasoning for refusing your help had anything to do with your gender or not, do you? And even if it was, it’s her prerogative to accept help or decline it from whomever, for whatever reason she may have, just as it would be for you, me, or anyone else.

Misogyny and “nice guys”: alive and well in Australia

I’m not from Australia, you dickhead.

Nice guy ^^^

Wow, you sound like SUCH a nice guy… I’m surprised more women wont let you carry their bags and do them favours.

P.S. I’m being sarcastic.

I want to lose weight. But, I also want to eat all the things…